Saturday, July 19, 2008

I see dead people

There is a cemetery near our house that we frequently drive by. Our beloved Grandma Peters is buried there, although we have not gone to visit her grave since she died over 2 years ago. Cemeteries are not a place I want to go to remember someone I loved deeply. Their memories live in my heart, in treasured pictures, and in familiar places where we spent time together. That said, my 3 1/2 year old doesn't know too much about cemeteries. Emma's inevitable question came the other day as we drove passed the rolling green lawn dotted with grave stones. I pondered how to tell her the truth at a level she could understand and gave her this response:

"That is a place where we can remember the people who died. Each person has a marker with the birth date and the day they died. Your Great Grandma has a place with her name on it because she was buried there. The cool thing is that even though Grandma Peters does not live any more here with us, she is in heaven with Jesus having fun praising Him. Grandma Peters loved Jesus very much."

At that point I was quite pleased with my answer when Emma came back with responses like, "Is heaven a long ways away?" and "I glad Grandma Peters love Jesus." We talked about it for quite some time. It was a lovely parenting moment. A few days later we drove passed the same cemetery and Emma obviously remembered our conversation and summarized the details:

"My great Grandma Pretties was really, really old and lives in the dirt at that place. But sometimes she goes to heaven with Jesus."

I have more work to do.

6 comments:

Lindsay said...

That's so funny!!!

We had a similar conversation after driving past a cemetary that started with Will telling Wyatt all about getting a new body in heaven and so on.....kids are the best :)

bunchofbull-ers! said...

That is SO cute. Ahhh, outta the mouth of babes, huh?!

Kelly said...

ROTFL!

Cathy said...

You can just imagine their little wheels a turnin!

Anonymous said...

Okay, my sides hurt now. This was great!!
~ Wanda

Anonymous said...

We have a hard time going to the cemetary. We know that Laurelai is not there. The Lord provides us with an earthly temple. When we die we live in His presence, not left behind as Em says "in the dirt :-)". An excelent book that she might enjoy sharing with you is Heaven by Randy Alcorn. You're welcome to borrow mine if you like. She certainly is turning into a lovely young lady. God bless you all
Lisa